Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Toddler Activities: 24 Months Old

One of the challenges of being a stay at home mom is finding activities for your little one to keep them entertained throughout the day. These are a few of our current favorite activities:

Stacking Cheerios: I saw this great idea over at Toddler Boredom Busters. All you need is some playdough (check out my recipe for Homemade Playdough!), uncooked spaghetti noodles, and a handful of cheerios. Stick the playdough to the table, then stick in a few spaghetti noodles, and stack as many cheerios as you can! This is a great opportunity to practice counting as the cheerio tower grows higher and higher!

Yes, she did eat some Cheerios!

Threading Fruit Loops: Emma has a fantastic set of threading beads that she gets to play with at her Granna's house. She loves threading the beads to make necklaces and bracelets, then enjoys taking them all apart and starting again. As soon as I can find a set on sale or at a garage sale, I'll get some for our house. Until then, threading Fruit Loops onto a length of ribbon or yarn is a good, cheap alternative. Fruit Loops work well because their hole is larger than Cheerios. Another trick that seems to help is to make a nice long "needle" on the end of your string with some packing tape. Emma was struggling at first, but when I made the needle a little longer, she mastered it quickly.

Yes, she did eat some Fruit Loops!

Scooping Ice: This is such a simple, fun activity to do on a hot day! Toddlers always seem to relish getting dirty or wet and this is also a great sensory activity. We used two buckets with water and one with ice. Emma practiced scooping the ice up and dumping it into the water. It was also a great learning opportunity to watch the ice slowly melt in the water.

Yes, she did eat some ice! And, of course...

Read: Reading is one of the best activities you can do with your child at any age!

A few of Emma's current favorites are: 

My 3 good things for today are:
  1. We had good weather for Emma's birthday celebration.
  2. Bryson rolled over (tummy to back) for the first time!
  3. Derek says I'm the fairest of them all ;) Let's see if he reads this post!

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

A Sprinkle Birthday Party

This month we celebrated Emma's 2nd birthday! We kept it simple this year, having a new baby, and had a great time with friends and family at a local park.

Last year when Emma had her smash cake, she spent most of the time picking sprinkles off and eating them each individually, and sprinkles still number as one of her favorite things. So we had a sprinkle theme for her 2nd birthday party.

We had a cute verse on her invitation, reading:

Meet us at the park,
We'll slide, swing and play.

You're invited to join us for 
Emma's 2nd Birthday!

We invite you to sprinkle her with love!
It would be the icing on the cake if you came! 

I got a lot of inspiration from this party and all of the food followed the sprinkle theme:
  • grilled hot dogs and brats with ketchup, mustard, relish, and onions so guests could sprinkle their hot dogs with toppings, 
  • some of "nature's sprinkles" like cherry tomatoes, broccoli, carrots, and cucumbers, 
  • water bottles with flavor mix-ins so guests could sprinkle their water with flavor, 
  • and a cupcake decorating station with a variety of frosting and sprinkles.

Decorations and activities included these adorable pom-pom balloons (I couldn't believe they worked!), and stations with crayons and colored pencils where guests could sprinkle some paper with color. The kids played at the park of course, as well as with bubbles and chalk.

We had so much fun, and I thank God for the good weather!

My 3 good things for today are:
  1. Emma's sweet smile!
  2. Her infectious laugh!
  3. All the wonderful memories she's given us over the past two years!

Potty Training Success!

So it's been over a month, and I'm proud to say that our little Emma is potty trained! I waited a while to write this one because it's a personal pet peeve when I read a post about someone potty training (or any number of subjects) in 3 days, and they're writing the post on day 3 - I personally would like to know about day 4 and maybe even day 17 because life goes on after day 3. This pet peeve also applies to product reviews when people say, "This just came in the mail today, and I love it!" I'd much rather know how you feel about it a month from now, thank you very much. But... I digress.

We did do the 3 day potty training method with Emma in which we stayed home for three full consecutive days and focused solely on potty training, although I must admit that we began preparing a while back. We got her a potty chair for Christmas, and it's been sitting in the bathroom for the past 7 months. I showed her, using her favorite doll and some big girl training panties, how you would pull down your panties, sit on the potty and go, and wipe, and pull your panties and pants back up. She would sit on her little potty (fully clothed and in her diaper) occasionally when one or the other of us was using the bathroom, just to get used to it. We also read a couple different books about learning to go in the potty, including:

After Bryson was born in May, we had a few conversations with her about how diapers were for babies (like Bryson) and she was growing up to be a big girl who could go in the potty, and that her diapers would be going away soon. We encouraged her to tell us if she needed to go, and if we could tell she needed to go (think pooping face - you know the face I'm talking about) we'd take her to sit on the potty.

On those occasions when she did tell us, or when we caught her in time to go in the potty, she would get a jelly bean along with lots of praise and tons of high-fives. We also promised her that we would take a trip to the zoo when she learned to use the potty because (here comes the shameful lie) you are not allowed to wear diapers to the zoo.

We went on like this from May to July, with Emma occasionally using the potty and getting a reward but generally going in her diaper and us not really pushing her. In July the blow fell. Derek came home from work and told me that this year his company picnic was being held at the Minnesota Zoo. So, we could either skip the picnic, or go and somehow explain to Emma why she could suddenly go to the zoo in diapers, or we could potty train.

The next week, I started an impromptu potty training marathon. Honestly, I got home from grocery shopping with the kids on a Wednesday morning and thought, "We have food in the house, and no plans for Thursday or Friday. Why not just stay home and try potty training?" I am type-A to the core, so this was very unusual for me, but I think it helped that we just started spur of the moment and didn't have time to psych myself out. So, after I'd put the groceries away, I told Emma that we were done with diapers and took her diaper off. We use cloth diapers, so I potty trained with Emma naked from the waist down because I was concerned that she wouldn't feel a big difference between wearing a cloth diaper and wearing cloth underwear. It also allowed us to get her onto the potty very quickly.

I moved her little potty chair into the nursery, spread a large sheet out over the floor (we have carpet throughout the house), and shut the door. It really helped me to have a "base camp" where we spent the next few days so all accidents were confined to that space and it was easier to keep an eye on Emma.

She had an accident within the first 20 minutes, and I took her to the potty before she had finished and encouraged her to go on the potty. She went a little and was happy to get a jelly bean and a hug. I put the jelly beans in a clear plastic jar next to the potty so they were a visible reminder to try to sit on the potty and go. I also let Emma have juice, which she NEVER gets, and pushed salty snacks like pretzels and goldfish crackers, to  encourage her to keep drinking.

The first day went better than I'd anticipated. After her first initial accident, she went pee successfully on the potty 4 times in a row. She even stayed dry during her nap in the afternoon! Then tragedy struck. A poop accident! Thankfully the sheet on the floor caught everything and there was no major disaster. She did well the rest of the day and only had two additional accidents in the evening right before bed.

She was wet when she woke up in the morning and continues to wear a cloth diaper overnight, although she does stay dry during naps. We do believe that night time dryness will come in time and aren't stressing about it too much right now.

Days 2 and 3 went very well, with three accidents on Day 2 and two accidents on Day 3. She continued to have about one accident per day sporadically for the next week. After that first week, she really stopped having accidents and now accidents are rare. She tells me every time she needs to go and I help her to the potty. She is even getting better about being able to pull her panties and shorts down by herself and sit on the potty, although she does need help with wiping and generally with getting her pants back up.

I think a big part of our success was that Emma was really ready to be potty trained. When Emma was about 19 months old, before Bryson was born, I decided to potty train her, but only made it about halfway through Day 2. It was a horrible time full of tears, and accident after accident with no discernible progress, but I think the answer can be found in the last sentence. I decided. I thought it would be easier to potty train a 19 month old before the new baby came. But I discovered it was easier to train a 23 month old - even with a newborn baby in the house - because she was physically and emotionally ready. Some signs of readiness are:
  • You are changing fewer diapers because your child is staying dry for longer periods of time.
  • Your child communicates (whether verbally or non-verbally) when they are peeing or pooping.
  • Your child asks to be changed or fusses when a diaper is dirty.
  • Your child is able to perform simple undressing.
  • Your child is interested in the potty chair or interested in you going potty.

I think nowadays too much emphasis is put on potty training early, and if your child is ready to potty train at 16 or 18 months that's great! But if they are not ready until 24 or 36 months, there's no shame in that. Every child develops differently. And I'm going to let you in on a little secret that others might not tell you: having a potty trained toddler will not solve all your problems.

From now on every trip out of the house will begin with a trip to the potty. On top of that, you'll probably want to visit the potty as soon as you reach your destination. Even if you do that, there will still be the inevitable announcements of "needing to go to the potty" when you're about to check out at the grocery store or right as you buckle your child into their carseat, or sit down to nurse your baby. Not that any of these instances have happened to me personally, ahem.

Even through all the ups and downs, it was a good growth and learning experience for Emma as well as for me. God has shown me new depths of patience that I didn't know I had, and I'm so proud of Emma as she is growing up into a big girl! Our story had a happy ending, and we got to enjoy an accident free day celebrating at the zoo as a family!

What potty training tricks worked for you?